A regretful Life

Written By Britt Wolfe
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There is a quiet danger in believing there will always be another morning.

Another chance to begin.
Another season to travel.
Another page to write.
Another reason to become the person waiting somewhere beyond tomorrow.

Tomorrow is remarkably persuasive.

It asks for nothing except patience,
and promises that the courage required today
will somehow arrive with the sunrise.

But tomorrow has an unsettling habit
of introducing another tomorrow,
until years slip by with scarcely a sound,
leaving behind a life that feels less lived
than carefully preserved.

Comfort rarely announces itself as an enemy.

It arrives as an evening on the sofa,
a dream postponed until circumstances improve,
a conversation that can surely wait,
a risk that seems wiser to avoid.

It asks only for one more day.

One more excuse.

One more delay.

There is an odd safety in standing still.

No failure waits for those who never begin.
No rejection finds what is never offered.
No disappointment follows dreams that remain forever imagined.

But neither does wonder.

The mountains remain unclimbed.
The oceans remain unseen.
The songs remain unsung.
The stories remain unwritten.

Potential slowly becomes memory
without ever becoming reality.

Time does not demand permission to continue.

It simply does.

The calendar keeps surrendering its pages.
The body quietly changes.
The mirror grows unfamiliar,
while the list of things still waiting
grows shorter only because the days themselves do.

Perhaps that is the saddest kind of regret—

not looking back upon mistakes,
or failed attempts,
or impossible ambitions,

but upon all the beautiful possibilities
that never had the chance to fail at all.

Because failure belongs to those who dared.

Regret belongs to everything
that remained forever untouched.

And what a heartbreaking exchange it is,

to trade the one brief,
astonishing gift of existence

for the effortless comfort

of never quite beginning.

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A regretful Life
A regretful Life

The greatest regrets are not always born from failure. Sometimes they grow from the opportunities never taken, the dreams forever delayed, and the extraordinary life that remained just out of reach. This poem is a meditation on courage, comfort, and the passing of time.

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A Trail Of Endings
A Trail Of Endings

Every beautiful thing asks the same impossible favour: Please don't let this end. Perhaps the greatest privilege of living is having so many moments worth missing. 💚

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Destroy It
Destroy It

It is astonishingly easy to break something beautiful. The harder—and infinitely more worthwhile—question is: what will we choose to build instead? 💚

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Schrödinger's Future
Schrödinger's Future

Tomorrow is the most generous place in existence. Before it arrives, nothing has been lost and everything is still possible. 💚

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The Surprise
The Surprise

Perhaps the greatest invitation ever offered wasn't to believe, but to wander. 💚

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Elbows On The Table
Elbows On The Table

The smallest acts of rebellion often reveal the biggest truths. 💚

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The Questions That Remain
The Questions That Remain

Some losses never stop asking questions. This poem is about the quiet, impossible search for answers after a life has ended, and the way love keeps looking long after there is nowhere left to look. I hope it leaves you holding your loved ones a little closer. 💚

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Shrunken
Shrunken

This poem was inspired by a feeling that is difficult to describe but impossible to ignore: the sense of watching a life slowly contract. Not through age or circumstance, but through fixation, regret, fear, obsession, or the weight of choices that narrow the horizon until possibility itself seems to disappear. Shrunken is not about any one person or any single story. It is about the tragedy of forgetting how vast the world still is. I hope that, as you read it, you feel both the sadness of that confinement and the quiet reminder that mountains still rise beyond the window, roads still stretch toward distant horizons, and life remains far larger than the cages the mind sometimes builds around itself. 💚

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The Blast Radius
The Blast Radius

Most conversations about harm focus on the victim and the perpetrator. What interests me is everyone else—the people who inherit consequences they did not create, whose lives are quietly altered by decisions made in rooms they never entered. A single act of violence can travel astonishing distances, reshaping futures, relationships, and identities long after the event itself has passed. This poem explores that invisible fallout and the uncomfortable truth that innocence has never guaranteed immunity from consequence. 💚

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The Chaser
The Chaser

This poem is about a particular kind of tragedy—not the tragedy of failure, but the tragedy of fixation. It was inspired by the realization that some people spend so much time chasing, comparing, resenting, or reacting that they never fully step into the extraordinary possibilities of their own lives. The Chaser is not really about any one person. It is about a pattern, a temptation that exists in all of us to look sideways instead of forward. I hope that, as you read it, you feel both the sadness of what can be lost to obsession and the quiet invitation hidden beneath it: to stop chasing shadows and begin building something beautiful of your own.💚

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The Beautiful Terrible Thing
The Beautiful Terrible Thing

I run five kilometres almost every day through a beautiful strip of nature near my home. It has become a deeply meditative ritual—a time when the noise of life quiets enough for ideas, questions, and poems to surface. This poem was conceived on one such run. Surrounded by towering trees, birdsong, sunlight on water, and the intricate beauty of a world that seems almost impossibly alive, I found myself reflecting on a question that has followed me for years: how can a world so breathtakingly beautiful also contain such profound suffering? The more closely I look at nature, the more miraculous existence feels. And yet woven into that same extraordinary tapestry are cruelty, injustice, violence, and heartbreak. The Beautiful Terrible Thing explores that contradiction. I hope that, as you read it, you feel both awe and discomfort—the wonder of being alive in a world so beautiful, and the responsibility that comes with sharing it with one another.💚

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The Bystanders
The Bystanders

This poem was inspired by a line from Alice Feeney's novel Sometimes I Lie, which lingered in my mind long after I finished reading. It made me think about the role of the bystander—not the person committing the harm, but the person who sees it, senses it, suspects it, and chooses silence. The Bystander is my reflection on the quiet power of courage and the equally powerful consequences of looking away. I hope that, as you read it, you find yourself considering the small moments when a voice, a question, or a simple act of standing beside someone can change the course of a life. 💚

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The People Pleaser
The People Pleaser

The People Pleaser is about the quiet cost of becoming everything for everyone except yourself. Many people pleasers are praised for their kindness, reliability, and generosity, yet beneath those compliments can live a profound loneliness—the loneliness of being deeply known by everyone except themselves. This poem explores the moment that pattern begins to break. I hope that, as you read it, you feel both the grief of all that was sacrificed in pursuit of approval and the profound relief that comes from finally asking a simple, life-changing question: What do I want? 💚

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It Happened Later
It Happened Later

It Happened Later is for anyone whose life failed to arrive on schedule. For anyone who spent years measuring themselves against timelines, milestones, and imagined deadlines, only to discover that some of the most meaningful things take longer than expected. This poem is not about giving up on dreams—it is about releasing the illusion that they must arrive on our timetable. I hope that, as you read it, you feel a little less burdened by where you thought you would be by now and a little more open to the possibility that your life is unfolding in its own wise and untidy way. Sometimes the best things arrive later. And sometimes later turns out to be exactly right. 💚

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Simply Is
Simply Is

This poem was inspired by a simple but surprisingly profound idea: perhaps not everything requires an explanation. So much of life is spent searching for meaning, certainty, and answers to questions that may never be resolved. Yet the natural world carries on without justification. Rivers flow. Mountains stand. Lilacs bloom. Simply Is is an invitation to step, if only for a moment, out of the endless pursuit of why and into the quiet peace of what already exists. I hope that, as you read it, you feel a little less pressure to understand everything and a little more permission to simply be where you are. 💚

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The Dark Tetrad
The Dark Tetrad

I’ve been reading a great deal about the Dark Tetrad—those intersecting traits of narcissism, Machiavellianism, psychopathy, and sadism—and found myself wondering what it might feel like to move through the world inside a mind shaped by those patterns. This poem is my attempt to imagine that interior landscape. I hope, as you read it, that you feel unsettled—that slow, creeping chill of realizing you are standing inside a psyche where charm is strategy, intimacy is leverage, and other people exist chiefly as instruments to be played.

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Carve Your Canyon
Carve Your Canyon

Carve Your Canyon is a poem about persistence—not the loud, cinematic kind we are taught to admire, but the quiet, often invisible kind that changes everything anyway. It is for anyone who has looked at the scale of a dream and felt impossibly small in comparison. For anyone who has wondered whether they are too late, too ordinary, too uncertain, or too tired to create the life they ache for. At its heart, this poem is a reminder that transformation is rarely born of spectacle. It is born of return. Of showing up again when no one is applauding. Of choosing devotion over drama. Because the most extraordinary lives, the most breathtaking art, and the most impossible dreams are so often carved not by force, but by the patient, relentless courage of simply refusing to stop.

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Fine: I’ll Drag Myself and My Dreams Out of Here Myself
Fine: I’ll Drag Myself and My Dreams Out of Here Myself

Fine: I’ll Drag Myself and My Dreams Out of Here Myself is for anyone who spent too long waiting—for permission, for confidence, for rescue, for the elusive moment when ambition would somehow feel legitimate enough to pursue out loud. It is a poem about creative hunger, late beginnings, and the furious clarity that comes when you realize no one is coming to hand you the life you ache for. At its heart, this is not a poem about effortless triumph. It is about grit. About dragging your dreams forward bloodied if necessary. About refusing self-erasure. About finally choosing yourself, your voice, and the stories burning inside you—even if the path forward is messy, exhausting, and entirely self-made.

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Dead Horse
Dead Horse

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I’ve Got My Hands Up
I’ve Got My Hands Up

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Relieved
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Profoundly Sad
Profoundly Sad

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My Best (Wasn’t Good Enough)
My Best (Wasn’t Good Enough)

Sometimes the hardest stories are the ones we must tell anyway. This poem was born in the quiet aftermath of pouring every ounce of love, courage, and effort into trying to protect someone who meant the world to me. I gave my absolute best—heart, hands, and sleepless nights—and still it was not enough. There is a particular kind of sorrow that arrives when your fiercest love cannot rewrite the ending you feared most. No redemption arc, no tidy moral. Just the raw, human truth of what it feels like when your best falls short and someone you love slips into the very darkness you tried so desperately to keep at bay. I offer it here with trembling hands, not because it is beautiful, but because it is true. If you have ever tried with everything you had and still came up empty, this is for you. You are not alone in the ache.💚

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I Hope You Live
I Hope You Live

I Hope You Live reflects on the quiet, often unnoticed ways we step outside of our own lives—watching, comparing, waiting for the right moment to begin. It explores the subtle drift into passivity, and the equally subtle return from it—not through grand change, but through small, imperfect acts of presence. This poem doesn’t urge transformation or promise clarity. Instead, it lingers in the moment of recognition, where something shifts just enough to bring you back into your own hours, your own voice, your own life.💚

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This Life Is Mine
This Life Is Mine

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The Quiet Finding
The Quiet Finding

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Every Beginning’s End
Every Beginning’s End

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The Offering
The Offering

The Offering reflects on the quiet, often unnoticed way possibility enters our lives—not as something loud or urgent, but as something small, steady, and entirely ordinary. It explores the idea that the future does not demand certainty or force, but unfolds gently through moments we might otherwise overlook. Rather than offering instruction or reassurance, this poem lingers in the present, where change begins almost imperceptibly, and where even the smallest shift in light can be enough to guide us forward.💚

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There Can Be Brighter Days
There Can Be Brighter Days

There Can Be Brighter Days is not a promise—it’s a quiet offering of possibility. It lives in the reality of long, uneven healing, where progress is rarely visible and hope doesn’t arrive on command. This poem doesn’t rush past the weight of addiction, instability, or the lingering echoes of survival. Instead, it stays with them, acknowledging how heavy and persistent they can be, while gently making space for something else to exist alongside them. Not certainty, not transformation—but the subtle, often unnoticed moments where things begin, almost imperceptibly, to shift.💚

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Grey
Grey

Grey is a meditation on the space between extremes—the quiet, often overlooked place where certainty softens and identity becomes something chosen rather than imposed. It explores the relief of stepping outside rigid definitions, of no longer needing to resolve every question or declare a fixed position. In this poem, the in-between is not confusion, but refuge—a place of balance, nuance, and quiet belonging, where contradictions can coexist and something more honest can begin to take shape. 💚

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Britt Wolfe

Britt Wolfe writes emotionally devastating fiction with the precision of a heart surgeon and the recklessness of someone who definitely shouldn’t be trusted with sharp objects. Her stories explore love, loss, and the complicated mess of being human. If you enjoy books that punch you in the feelings and then politely offer you a Band-Aid, you’re in the right place.

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