The Bandaged Place

Written By Britt Wolfe
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There is a place I keep covered.
Not because it is still bleeding,
but because it remembers.

The bandage is clean now.
Carefully wrapped.
Changed often enough
that I can pretend
the work is finished.

But healing does not end
when the wound closes.
It lingers in the body
as caution,
as flinch,
as a quiet bracing
for what once hurt.

I have learned to move around it.
To live skillfully.
To distract myself
with productivity,
with kindness,
with forward motion.

Anything but looking.

Because looking asks something harder.
It asks me to sit still
while the ache introduces itself again.
To stay present
without narrating,
without justifying,
without turning pain into a lesson
before it has been heard.

The bandaged place does not want repair.
It wants permission.

Permission to exist
without being hurried toward meaning.
Permission to be felt
without being improved.
Permission to say,
This mattered,
and not be contradicted.

So I begin here.

I loosen the edge of the wrap.
Not to reopen the wound,
but to acknowledge its shape.
Its colour.
The way it changed me.

I do not ask it to leave.
I do not demand it transform.
I let it be what it is
in the open air of my attention.

This is not indulgence.
This is not collapse.

This is courage —
the kind that does not charge forward,
but turns toward what it has avoided
and stays.

Acceptance, I am learning,
is not agreement with what happened.
It is the refusal
to abandon myself
because it did.

And in that steady looking,
something unexpected happens:

The wound softens.
Not because it was forced to,
but because it was finally met.

The bandage can stay.
Or it can come off.

Either way,
I am no longer running.

And that,
quietly,
is where healing begins.

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Britt Wolfe

Britt Wolfe writes emotionally devastating fiction with the precision of a heart surgeon and the recklessness of someone who definitely shouldn’t be trusted with sharp objects. Her stories explore love, loss, and the complicated mess of being human. If you enjoy books that punch you in the feelings and then politely offer you a Band-Aid, you’re in the right place.

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